Re-focusing on Gains

Lisa Anteau • August 14, 2025

Downsizing & moving isn't all about Loss

Gracewin Members visiting over coffee in the Sunset Lounge.

In the fitness industry, a frequently used term is "Gains", which refers to positive progress in your health goals; examples are building muscle, decreasing BMI, or improving performance metrics. This simple word carries wealth of positive connotations with it and relays that the person experiencing those gains are on a worthwhile and successful path. 


So, if we are able to focus on gains in the gym, why shouldn't we apply the gains mindset to other changes we are making in our lives?


When it comes to making a lifestyle change like moving into a senior cooperative, there is often a reason or a driver of that change:

  • Loss of physical mobility
  • Existing home presents safety concerns
  • Lack of time/less energy to maintain existing home
  • Loss of Partner
  • Needing to be closer to services
  • Pressure from family and friends


But, what about the gains of making a lifestyle change? These are often secondary to the concerns of the day (and for good reason), but not when it comes to living a life that is fulfilling and puts you in the driver's seat with how you spend your time. A perfect example are Gracewin members Val & Eddie, a busy working couple who truly put the "active" in active 55+ living! Although, completely able to physically maintain multiple homes while commuting to work in St. Cloud, this forward-thinking couple wanted more out of life, specifically time at their lake cabin and opportunities to adventure on their Harley Davidson motorcycle. The maintenance-free lifestyle offered at Gracewin allows them the time to do what they love most. The question that we frequently pose to prospective members is this one:

Is your home serving you well, or are you spending all of your time and energy serving your home?


If you find yourself falling into the latter category, it may be time to ask yourself why - and further - is that how you want to be spending your time and energy, your greatest non-renewable resources. Perhaps it is a fear of change and loss that is holding you back; saying goodbye to the home that you are used to living in, downsizing possessions, or even worries about your continued independence. As you reflect on your lifestyle, have you given thought to your potential gains?


  • Single-level living in an ADA accessible building
  • Premiere locations in close proximity to the things you want and need
  • No maintenance
  • Indoor & Outdoor Amenities (pickleball court, fitness room, dedicated hobby space, car wash bay)
  • Easy access to trails, bike paths
  • Time and space for health and wellness activities
  • Vibrant community of enjoyable neighbors
  • Continued ownership with tax benefits
  • A voice in how your community operates
  • Engaging activities planned by Member Committees, examples of some of these past activities include:
  • Guest Speakers covering topics of interest
  • Morning coffee gatherings
  • Walking Clubs
  • Onsite Yoga Classes
  • Television Series Watch Parties
  • Monthly Birthday Celebrations
  • Sporting Event Parties
  • Cookouts
  • Theatrical Performances
  • Musicians
  • Peace of mind, with the support of Community
  • New connections
  • New Hobbies and Interests


What type of gains do you feel you'd experience in making the change to active 55+ living? If elements of this lifestyle sound appealing to you, we encourage you to check it out at www.gracewinliving.com, or contact Gracewin staff at (855) 472-2396 or info@gracewinliving.com.



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By Lisa Anteau June 26, 2025
A Lifestyle Upgrade for Seniors
By Lisa Anteau March 20, 2025
As printed in the Northfield News, March 19, 2025 Housing co-op seeks final seniors to break ground on Northfield building By COLTON KEMP colton.kemp@apgsomn.com Those living in or around Northfield at or above the age of 55 can downsize while maintaining equity on a property by becoming a member of a prospective housing cooperative near the hospital west of Northfield. Gracewin Cooperative secured the purchase agreement for the land. It intends to construct a new residential building with 47 living units, underground and heated parking and a myriad of other amenities. By paying into one of the flexible buy-in options, people become shareholders of the co-op. The monthly payment on their unit is determined by how much is paid for the share purchase, as well as the size of the unit. There are eight different floor plans, ranging from about 1,000 square feet to about 1,400 square feet. All options have a balcony or patio, and an in-unit washer and dryer. Shares range from about $150,000 to $400,000, while monthly fees range from $1,200 to about $2,700. The more paid for the share, the lower the monthly payment. Gracewin Living Cooperatives Head of Sales and Marketing Lisa Anteau explained that being a shareholder in the co-op makes someone a member, meaning they own a piece of the building and the land. They also earn a flat 2% equity on their share. “This is bigger than you just owning, like, Unit 205,” she said. “This is you owning a share of Gracewin Cooperative. So that means the land, the building, the overall building itself and every piece of furniture in the building. Then they get an exclusive right to occupy one of the units as a member.” Once folks are bought in, they pay a monthly fee to cover all the expenses of the building, like maintenance, property insurance, sewer, water, gas, wireless internet, taxes and more. Electricity, cable, a landline and personal-contents insurance are the only things not included in the monthly fee. At Gracewin Cooperative, the planned amenities are extensive, ranging from a wood shop and car wash in the underground garage to a speakeasy and the owner’s lounge on an upper level. The monthly fee guarantees free access to all amenities, except for renting the fully staffed guest suite, which is $50 per night. The co-op allows pets. There are trash chutes on every floor, so residents don’t need to climb stairs to access the dumpsters. Everything is ADA-compliant, another key aspect to the co-op. Gracewin Living Cooperatives is the developer overseeing the project until they can get the ball rolling. The company hires all the initial contractors for things like lawn care and snow removal, as well as the property management. Until the building has reached 70% occupancy, the Gracewin Living Cooperatives team serves as the interim board of directors for the building. Once the threshold is reached, elections are held among the residents. “That’s very important, because then the people making the decisions on behalf of the co-op are subject to those decisions,” Anteau said. “They’re thinking about things like, ‘Do we put this in our budget?’ or ‘Do we need this?’ or ‘How much do we have to increase rates because costs have increased?’ They’re subject to all of those things themselves.” Filling a gap Only one other example of senior housing in Northfield uses the co-op model, Kildahl Park Pointe. Melisa Hanson, the housing coordinator for the city of Northfield, reported that there’s a long waiting list there, leaving “a huge gap” in the market. “What we’re seeing is folks are trying to age in place,” Hansen said. “So they’re putting their money in those [ADA] supports, but then the foundation isn’t getting addressed, the chimneys aren’t getting addressed, the windows, etc. Then we’re finding that type of maintenance gets deferred. When a young family comes to buy the home, oftentimes they don’t have the skills to do the repairs themselves. They certainly don’t have a lot of the money either.” Once an interested party pays a refundable $500 deposit with their reservation, they are added to a waitlist, which determines the order units are selected. Anteau said they need 24 people ready to move in to break ground, which she hopes will be this fall. “We know not everybody is going to be ready to move in on day one,” she said. Anteau went on to explain that, once they have three times the amount needed to break ground, they reach out to the first person on the waitlist and work their way down the list. If they have 24 people who say they’re ready to move in, construction can begin. She also said Gracewin Cooperative is not an assisted-living facility, but a place to retire and downsize for those stuck in a non-ADA-compliant, 4,000-square-foot home as an empty nester or some similar situation. Northfield resident Charlie Kyte said he and his dog, Sophie, have been living in a house much too large for just the two of them. He is among those already on the waitlist at Gracewin. “The fact that all my needs can be met at Gracewin is very attractive to me,” he said. “At first I thought the [share-purchase] fee seemed high. Then, I realized it included all property taxes and most of the needed property insurance, plus all the other costs of owning a house, which made it actually a good deal.” Martha Easter-Wells is also on the priority list at Gracewin, due to her love for Northfield and desire to stay in the community. “By signing onto the waiting list early, I will have a nice choice of apartments,” she said. “I went to see the Gracewin in Baxter and was impressed by the design and construction. There are a lot of nice features, both in the apartments and in the common areas.” MORE INFO For more information on the Gracewin Cooperative Northfield project, attend one of the in-person informational sessions at 3 p.m. March 27 at the Edina Senior Center , at 5280 Grandview Square in Edina, or the next local meeting is at 3 p.m. April 23 at the Gracewin sales office , at 2018 Jefferson Road, Suite I (the letter, I). Todd Metoxen, Gracewin Northfield’s local sales consultant, has office hours at the same office on Jefferson Road from 10-4 p.m. Monday through Friday, except Tuesdays he is there 10-1 p.m. He’s also available Saturdays by appointment, and interested parties can reach him at Todd@GracewinLiving.com or 507-222-8960.
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